Well, I think I’ve now had every debate mentally with myself about the pros and cons of returning to work. Overall, I know it’s the best for me and also for Imogen as I believe nurseries are great environments for babies. I know that personally, if I stayed at home Imogen would come out with me as I try to do my chores as she does now and whilst there is some level of stimulation for her in this, it won’t interest her forever; it rarely interests me!
Plus it will give me some time on my own and I truly find work enjoyable - or at least I did! This is the hardest bit to write in black and white as it makes me feel like a traitor to motherhood to even suggest that time away from my baby may be a good idea. However, I know it’s what is right for our family and will work for us - and if it doesn’t, then I can change things later!
Also, I am fortunate enough to be able to go back to work 4 days a week and am really looking forward to spending that 5th day with Imogen, avoiding chores and indulging us with activities we can do together.
The keeping in touch day really helped as well as the lack of confidence I suddenly found myself with in a business environment has been tackled. Although I’m sure the first day back will be like starting school all over again!?



